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However, this is a critical time as what we want to do, and what we need to do are completely counterintuitive!
I used to completely go into OVERDRIVE and take over.
I was angry that I was doing so much, and he was resentful as I became “the guy” in the relationship.
What I learned was that men need the space to work it out.
This can cause anxiety to take over, sending our emotions into OVERDRIVE.
making plans for the weekend, talking about future events, meeting family, vacations, etc.
Things could be moving along perfectly and all of a sudden things come to a CRAWL, or to an abrupt halt.
Or maybe we start WORKING HARD to PROVE to him what a catch we are.
If you are feeling anxious, panicked, or stressed because you have been told or can FEEL him pulling away, I can understand because I have been there too!
There is nothing we can say or do to motivate him to move things forward.In fact, when we try to start controlling things we are only making it worse.